5 Principles of Healthy Relationships

5 Principles of Healthy Relationships

People in healthy relationships seem to abide by a handful of core beliefs. Here’s what they wish we knew: Reject the fairy tale. The belief that “love is all you need” is romantic, but not very realistic. In healthy relationships, couples reject the...
The Magic Ratio for Relationship Success

The Magic Ratio for Relationship Success

In the beginning of a relationship, communication is effortless. However, as time goes on, some couples struggle to communicate effectively, while others continue to find communication relatively easy. Dr. John Gottman sought to understand the difference between these...
The Hidden Cost of Mind Reading

The Hidden Cost of Mind Reading

Julie calls Brandon on her way home from work. She notices that he gives one word responses to her questions and doesn’t ask about her day. Julie assumes that Brandon is still angry about their argument this morning, so when she comes home, she doesn’t give him...
Why is Change So Hard?

Why is Change So Hard?

There is not a single person on the planet who believes change is easy. Long-term, sustainable change is not for the faint of heart – it requires self-reflection, hard work, patience, and lots of failure. Personal change promises to relieve us of the pain in our past,...